About the creator of this site

Jennifer’s (short) Story

Jennifer

My name is Jennifer Hautman. I originally created this site in 1999 as the result of going through a mid-life crisis. Some people buy sports cars – I filled a mountain of journals. I wanted to share what I had learned after coming through those tumultuous years.

Skip ahead 13 years, and I’m in the middle of another major turning point in my life. In 2010 I divorced a man I love. It’s complicated or I’m crazy. As I’m regaining my balance, I find I have even more to share. So I completely re-designed and re-wrote the site 2012.

I’ve always been deeply passionate about personal growth. By some people’s standards, I have spent an inordinate amount of time and money working on myself. My mission has been to figure out how to create sustained happiness, be at peace (and maybe even rejoice) in who I am, and create a life perfectly suited to my desires and talents. I’m getting there.

So does this qualify me to tell you what to do or how to change your life? Not hardly. You’re the only one who can do that. The most I can hope for is to be a catalyst for your transformation. One of my greatest joys would be for you to think about your life in a brand new way and to believe again in what's possible.

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Be yourself, because everyone else is already taken.

- Oscar Wilde

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I've never fooled anyone. I've let people fool themselves. They didn't bother to find out who and what I was. Instead they would invent a character for me. I wouldn't argue with them. They were obviously loving somebody I wasn't.

- Marilyn Monroe