Relationship Advice

I know you'd like to tell me everything that's been going on with this man or woman and then get advice from an "expert" who would then tell you exactly what you should do. Well, I'm not that expert and that's not what I do.

If I did give relationship advice, here is what I'd say...

If you are dating...
This other person is not likely to change. You will never, ever, ever change this person. Put an enormous amount of weight on what they do, NOT what they say.

Two, sounds to me like he or she is looking for someone else. Trust that you'll find love again and move on to find someone you loves you exactly as you are right now. You deserve it.
(Women, I would seriously recommend you get this book "He's just not that into you". It will save you years of trying to figure out what he's thinking.)

If you're married...
Your spouse is not likely to change. You will never, ever, ever change your spouse. The only person you can change is you. For now, focus on your own personal happiness and what you want in your life. When you're happy, then look at your relationship.

See, that's not what you wanted to hear!