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2) Make Happiness A Deliberate Intention
How often do you base whether youll be happy or not, on the circumstances
and conditions in your life? When this happens, Ill be happy.
When I get this house, car, relationship, job, this problem is solved,
have self esteem, get out of this marriage (the list is endless) ...
then Ill be happy.
What if your happiness was...
More important than changing?
More important than getting what you want?
More important than making more money?
More important than being healthy?
More important than having friends?
More important than being respected?
More important than having the right career?
More important than being in a great relationship?
What if you could be happy while pursuing the things you want?
Whose to say you can't? Is there any reason you can't experience joy while
creating the life you want?
What we focus on becomes larger in our lives. If you focus on feeling
happy, you will feel happier. Consider this. If you dont have to
use unhappiness to motivate
yourself to
accomplish something, you could pursue your desires while being happy.
You could feel good, right here, right now. Its all about setting
the intention to feel good at the top of your list. To understand
this more fully, I recommend you read Emotional
Options by Mandy
Evans.
One of the surprising and amazing results of deliberately making happiness
important in your life, is how much more effective you will be at creating
what you want!
3) Acceptance

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